It often happens that parents want to have a girlor a boy. But often they think about the differences in the educational process, which depend on the sex of the child? But how to educate a boy, how to grow a real man out of him, is a complex and multifaceted question.
So the baby was born
When my son was born, one of the first tasksis to give him a real man's name. In this case, psychologists do not recommend giving double names, such as Eugene, Valentine or Julius. Blue color in clothes does not play a serious role in the formation of masculinity. This is most likely a necessity for parents, they thereby signal to others that a real man is growing up in a family.
The first year of life
Boys over the age of three
At about three years, parents will notice that the babybecame independent. At this age, the child studies the interaction between people, learns to understand what is bad and what is good. It is in this time interval that the boy has a tendency to communicate more with men, to be brave, strong and courageous. Right now, the most correct for parents who ask themselves "how to raise a boy" will give the right guidelines, to show the most typical behavioral patterns for a male (certainly positive). A mother who aspires to raise a "knight", it is necessary to see in him, above all, a small man, choosing for himself the position of the weaker sex. For the self-esteem of the boy it will be useful to consult with him, and also let him be strong (for example, to show that without his help you would surely fall). And remember that the spiritual upbringing of children begins at a time when parents give them the opportunity to understand that they are full members of the family.